The
Dominant Side
I
Thought Id take a few moments here to talk a bit about what I see is my
interest in the realm of the bdsm world. I feel it is important that we
have this understanding up front so you will know what to expect before
we delve into a place where conversations like this do little to excite
the scenes.
There
are many so called “Dom's / Masters” out there that are just looking
for a sub
because they want a woman that will tolerate a great deal of abuse...
Someone
to order around, to treat like shit, to be their prostitute, or to
build
upon their pathetic little false ego's.
I
am NOT that kind of Man/Dom/Master!
I am
seeking a 'relationship'! With all the main objectives of any vinilla
relationship. Where the prime directive is based on love, trust,
truth
and a honest dedication to our desire to walk down the road of a life
time commitment.
I feel I could be happy anywhere from a 'kinky vinilla', to a
semi hard
D/s relationship providing she is detected, open minded, willing to
grow and communicate.
I am
100% respectful of her, as my lover, life mate and best friend. I would
never go to a level or a place or anywhere she would not ‘really’ want
me to take her. I respect safe words
and all limits 100%, but will be ever vigilant and eager as these needs
grow and change.
While
she may 'wish' be my little submissive slut, and thus will be treated
as such, she will also find true love. trust, respect, passion and feel
intensely desired in
all that I do, with
her…. for her…. and to her.
I am
not into sharing you, trading you, disrespecting you as a person, as my
sub, or as a woman. I am not into hurting, marking, disfiguring,
degrading
or harming you in any 'real' fashion. I
do not believe it is just a Masters job to simply punish or order his
sub
to do things to only please him. But to find the things within her that
she desires and to fulfill those desires with the strengths she needs
from
me.
I very
much understand that it is a true gift that a submissive gives to her
Dom,
that is to be honored, respected, treasured, appeased
and rewarded for “at all times”!
In the
real world you will be treated with discreteness and
adored. You will be encouraged (or
supported) to fallow 'your dreams' and to achieve your goals
with work, hobbies, friends or other interests you may have. I
believe it is this, that will build upon a long lasting relationship
that
is prosperous and fulfilling to us both.
I have
had only a few, but long relationships that had the element of
D/s-bdsm…
I am now looking for something full-time
and permanent. I hope you will find me refreshing but you should not
mistake my lack of experience with a lack of ability, dedication,
strengths
or enthusiasm… I am very creative and put a great deal of time
and
energy into making our world everything ‘we’ have designed it to be
‘together’.
As a
Master, I believe you will find me sexy, knowledgeable strong and
forceful
in all the places you need but kind a caring when it is the 'man', your
best friend, that's desired. I take a great deal of pride with
all that I do and pay close attention to not only your submissive/
sexual/
bdsm/ fantasy needs, but in the ways they are provided for are
safe,
clean and responsible.
<>Although
we will spend a great deal of time discussing our dreams and desires, I
hope this has given you just a little insight into a Sir called
Richard...
And that some time soon, you will find the means to bestow upon me, the
honor of.... ~
Master ~
Sir Richard
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Men
are taught
to
apologize
for their
weaknesses.
Women
for their
strengths...

But my
little
masochist
will
confess
all the
things
she never
thought
she could
feel..

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